Monday, April 29, 2013

First Impression is the Last Impression


First Impression is Last impression , this phrase is used often by people.It is true indeed,
as your first impression is really important on person you hardly know .

.Making good impact on somebody on first meeting is really important, because most of the people observe you and make impression  about you by watching your body language and your way of talking, generally in cases of  job interview and social gathering.

So what are the steps which can make an incredible impact on one,s mind in jusst one meeting if you follow them wisely:

First Step : If you are standing in group of people  you hardly know, be an initiater .Start the talk with a positive attitude .

Second Step :Always maintain a politness in your tone while talking.This will prove that you are well educated and wise person.

Third Step : After initiating the talk, give chance to others , so that others can also express their thoughts.

Fourth Step:Be a  good listner, even if you think someone,s views are not matching with you and never criticise them.

Fifth Step: Dont laugh, but smile a little while talking to people, people definately like smiling faces then the sad ones.

Sixth Step :Donot disclose too much about yourself  in front of people in your first meeting, because if your life has been ful of struggle and miseries and you are telling people about that, they will not like it for sure, they will avoid you generally.

Seventh Step :Be Yourself .Being  the way you are in diginified manner is important because if you try to be fake , people may a catch you  and make fun of you at your back.

Eight Step :Do not be over enthusiastic about one thing.This may make impression of you being immature sometimes.People may consider you as  non experienced person.

Ninth Step : If bunch of people are discussing thing you dont know, you can listen to them peacefully and then after listening to the topic , you can give your opinion if asked for.

Tenth Step: If have you  hurt somebody by mistake or with anyof your gesture..
Be Sorry and ask for forgiveness from that person.

I Hope these few points can help you make a good and dignified impression when you will go out in social gathering and you have to be among few strangers whom you have never met.
Who knows may be you Mr. Popular among them, but be Careful ;)


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