Five Lessons learned in 2016.

Today I am going to share what I have learned from life in 2016. So let's start it.

1. Spending  time with your elders is very important.

We all are busy in our work and in this schedule we often forget  to spend time with our parents and grandparents.
They actually need us because they are growing old. They need our love at that stage.We should spend as much time with them as we can .So this is what I learned.

2. Travel whenever you have time and if you don't have time then create it.

This year I have learned how important is to travel and see new places in this one life.
Travelling not only rejuvenate your soul but it gives you chance to recreate a new you. Its quintessential for your mind and body, especially when your work is mandane and dull.

3. Another important thing which I learned is If you are always available to people's disposal they will take you for granted.

Being good to others is nice thing but it doesn't mean that others take you for granted so always remember that don't give them too much importance. Let them deal with your absence. It is necessary sometimes only then they can realise your importance.

4. One more important thing which I learned is "Expect the unexpected and always be on your toes when it comes to IT industry".

This year I have seen something which I haven't seen in my career of 5 years. I saw people being fired from the jobs in my firm and I was quite shocked . But I learned from this thing is life is unpredictable so don't waste money and use it effectively .

5. I have learned that if you can't give 100% effort to particular thing don't expect miracles to happen to you.

Basically I just want to say sometimes we want something so desperately but we don't want to put that much effort to it .That kind of attitude will not help us reach anywhere near to our goal . Hence we have to do extra efforts to make things done.



So this is what I learned from 2016 and I am hoping best things in 2017.

Most Simplest and Easy way to Express Your Hidden Emotion

Do you ever feel that you need somebody to talk to and listen to your problem

Or

Do you ever feel nobody understands your situation?

Or 

Do you ever feel confused about Life .

In any of the above situation, the first thing you should is to talk to your friends and family and explain them what is bothering you. But incase, you think that they might not be able to understand your situation and you need to express your emotions somehow then just start WRITING .

Writing is the best way to express emotions when you have hidden anger or when you are feeling low. It doesn't matter in which language you write and what words you use as long as you write your heart out.

People often say in writing it is very important that we should use right kind of "vocabulary" or "grammar" but i think if we like writing we should just write inspite of stressing or focussing on above mentioned things. Basic focus should be on conveying your message.

 I myself write here on " Nascent Soul"  without the help of any dictionary or without using any linguistic tools. The motto for me is expression of emotions. I don't care whether any body reads my article or not . I just like putting my thoughts, feelings and wisdom here or whatever I am learning  from life.

Do you know why I am focusing on writing that much, here are few points why you should do it quite often.

1. Writing out your situation will actually going to bring all inside your mind and heart on piece of paper. When you read your own stuff you can actually see your situation from another point of view. Like what you say , watching yourself in a "Mirror" or watching yourself in a "Video" . Believe me when you read your own stuff you will actually going to get a workaround for your problem or may be a permanent fix to it.

 Just think that what would you suggest to some one who is in the same situation as you? We generally have solution for other people's problem.

2. When you write , you feel light. If not much , a little you will. 

It is almost like Crying or Laughing. We cry when we are filled with sadness 

and we laugh when we find something funny. Both these things are passage of emotions. Similarly we have Writing. We can express our selves without showing it to any body. 

3. Somehow habit of writing will make you connected to your real self not the one who is on Instagram or Snapchat or any other Social Media. Your real self is some one who just want to have happy life. We all are simple people but we make our life complex , we should get rid of this unwanted complexity . Keep it SIMPLE and Love your life.

Your Life is like Perfect "Cake", just spray icing on it......

 Positive Thoughts for you

Dont wait for perfect moments in life rather make your moments perfect by yourself.
Dont wait to get motivated by somebody, instead motivate somebody.
Dont cry over not being like somebody, enjoy the awesome feeling of being unique.
Dont be emotional depedent on someone, be  emotionally independent..

The Best thing about you is "YOU"
You are unique.
You are Orginal.
You are lovable, you are adorable...........
You owe respect, because you give respect..

You are good, so no matter what good things will come to you.
No matter what, you will get best when you will do your best..

You and your life will become perfect
Just love those who love you,...
Care for those who care for you...
Thank God for what he made,.. Promise him that you will become better human being day by day..