Life is not a bed of roses, it is often said. When you are going through bad
times you feel like hell and start cursing your destiny and yourself, but that
is wrong because sometimes it happens in-spite of giving your best effort, you
just don't get the things you want.
It has happened with me a lot of time.
Friends, what I feel "yes it is true" that life is unpredictable and it sometimes ditches you. But there are few things which may change your perspective of thinking aboutyour life.
Following are the points which you should avoid doing in order to make your life happy and peaceful.
1. NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS
Grass is greener on other side
Most of us have the habit of comparing ourselves with others. For example, if your car is smaller than your friend’s car, you feel sad about it. Don’t be. Just believe that you will get a bigger car when you will actually need it. Right now you are happy with what you have got. Just say this to yourself a and don’t get disheartened, think positive.
2. BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS AND IN YOUR THOUGHTS
Always believe in your dreams even if they are hard to achieve. Nothing is impossible in this world. If you are giving your best efforts and trying your level best to achieve what you want, soon your time will come .Just believe .God help those, who help themselves.
3. KEEP THE COMPANY OF GOOD PEOPLE
How your life goes on also depend on the company of people you talk to and people you live with. Negative people give negative thoughts and Positive people makes you positive, so it’s better to find right friends ,which makes you feel good about yourself and whom you can trust at your bad times.
4. LOVE YOURSELF
If you think that nobody loves you then you are wrong ,
You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.
Lord Buddha
Sometimes it is necessary that you should give time to yourself. Pamper yourself .Do the things you love to do. It will give peace to your soul and you will get to know more about yourself and yourr inner conscious will get awaken.
5. BE WHO YOU ARE
A Wise Friend suggested me, that no matter what happens. Always be yourself in front of people, because if you will be yourself then only you can find good people in your life , the people who actually loves you the way you are.
Being the way we are doesn’t mean, not working on the shortcomings we have, but it means
having courage of accepting our shortcomings and flaws and giving our best possible efforts in removing them.So be proud to be what you are.
It has happened with me a lot of time.
Friends, what I feel "yes it is true" that life is unpredictable and it sometimes ditches you. But there are few things which may change your perspective of thinking aboutyour life.
Following are the points which you should avoid doing in order to make your life happy and peaceful.
1. NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS
Grass is greener on other side
Most of us have the habit of comparing ourselves with others. For example, if your car is smaller than your friend’s car, you feel sad about it. Don’t be. Just believe that you will get a bigger car when you will actually need it. Right now you are happy with what you have got. Just say this to yourself a and don’t get disheartened, think positive.
2. BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS AND IN YOUR THOUGHTS
Always believe in your dreams even if they are hard to achieve. Nothing is impossible in this world. If you are giving your best efforts and trying your level best to achieve what you want, soon your time will come .Just believe .God help those, who help themselves.
3. KEEP THE COMPANY OF GOOD PEOPLE
How your life goes on also depend on the company of people you talk to and people you live with. Negative people give negative thoughts and Positive people makes you positive, so it’s better to find right friends ,which makes you feel good about yourself and whom you can trust at your bad times.
4. LOVE YOURSELF
If you think that nobody loves you then you are wrong ,
You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.
Lord Buddha
Sometimes it is necessary that you should give time to yourself. Pamper yourself .Do the things you love to do. It will give peace to your soul and you will get to know more about yourself and yourr inner conscious will get awaken.
5. BE WHO YOU ARE
A Wise Friend suggested me, that no matter what happens. Always be yourself in front of people, because if you will be yourself then only you can find good people in your life , the people who actually loves you the way you are.
Being the way we are doesn’t mean, not working on the shortcomings we have, but it means
having courage of accepting our shortcomings and flaws and giving our best possible efforts in removing them.So be proud to be what you are.
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