Do you know you are genius.

Genius is a word which we usually associate with a person having High IQ like Albert Einstein, Shakespeare and many more like them.

So what did these legends had that you don't? Big Brains.
No, the  answer is they did the kind of work they were keenly interested in rather than doing a work what others wanted them to do .

They were normal people like us but they had "extra" courage or guts than us.
They pursued a career which matched their personality type and interest unlike most of us who never had courage to pursue our dreams .
The problem is we choose to become "Average" in some other field rather than choosing a profession where we can be "Excellent".

A High Paying Job can definitely pay bills but after certain number of years , it ends up filling an individual with lot of frustration because going to workplace daily where you don't belong may led to mental dissatisfication.

So what should be done to avoid mental frustration of this kind ?

Solution is do what you love in free time .
Don't ever leave what you love doing , whatever it is if you couldn't pursue your career in that field than do it in your free time . It will keep your dreams alive and will give you mental satisfaction.
Work on it in spare time until you start making money from it.

Follow you heart along with your Brain and World will appauld you.

How to know what is your passion in 2 minutes.

We often hear a word "Passion" in our day to day life. When we listen to the interviews of successful people we often hear them saying that "my work is my passion". We read statements like he/she is passionate about this or that thing. We often do , don't we?

Sometimes, it can take a life to understand what is your passion.So why not realise it as early as possible in your life so that you can live a happy life.

So most important question is how to know what is your Passion????????????

Is your hobby same as Passion

Or vice versa.

So the simplest way to know is think about an "activity you love doing the most" and "if somebody ask you to do, you can do it for free".

That activity is your Passion.

If you are thinking that you love doing painting but can't give it for free to anyone then painting might be your hobby but you don't love it to the level of "Passion".

If you can't do it for free its not your passion it is just your interest. 

Your qualities like self lessness, honesty, orginality and loyalty  makes you "Passionate".

ATTITUDE PROBLEM - OMG

This blog is coming straight from my quilt .I mean I am in my room , light is off , I have mobile in my hand and my head is inside warm quilt in this chilly winter night at my home. This is blessing and I feel blessed.

Moving on to the blog, today I thought I should write about a word which is often misunderstood by a lot of people. The word is "Attitude".

When someone says that 'x' has a lot of attitude we generally assume that person is arrogant.We think having Attitude is a bad character but there is nothing wrong in having it if it is not in excess.

Attitude is good if you have right amount of it.

You know if you will be too down to earth then my dear friend get ready to be used by others. Even your family and friends, acquaintances can do that too knowingly or unknowingly. 

So it is very important that you should set a barometer for your tolerance of things. It is very important that if someone is  trying to low down your self esteem or any thing like that. You should have a right kind of attitude to deal with them. Show them they can't take advantage of your goodness anymore. Show with your attitude . 

This can be achieved only if you are strong enough to get rid of such people.

Remember God wants you to respect others but this doesn't mean you don't respect yourself.

Always stand up for yourself nobody else will do that on your behalf but only you need to.

Thank you.

What is unconditional happiness.

We read, talk and heard alot about happiness all the time.
But what is happiness?
Its a feeling we all want to have all the time like 24*7*365 days .

But you know what it is impractical to feel happy all the time because we are humans and we feel different emotions at different times. It is normal to be sad, angry, happy, sulky within a day. Every emotion has its own importance. So it's okay if you don't feel happy all the time.


You often heard people saying, I was happy last time when I achieved something, or when I was on date with my gf/bf, when I got an appraisal and other stuff like that.

Now the biggest mistake we do here is we are tieing our Happiness with a Person or with a goal or with an event. But we should not do it.
We should not put any condition on happiness. We should be happy unconditionally. We usually wait for the time we would be happy but that time never comes because once we achieve one thing we tie our happiness to another thing. So we never ever feel happy.  So important thing we all should do is set our Happiness free.

Happiness could come to you anytime if you will let it come inside your heart without any condition.

It could come in a form of  a call from your old friend.
It could come if you hear your favourite song on radio.
It could come if you get unexpected holiday from office.
It could come if you get smile from a good looking stranger.
It could come if you get 100 rs note in your pocket unexpectedly
It could come if you get appreciation from your senior.
It could come if you see an extra pastry left in your refrigerator.

I hope you get my point. It's like a river , let it flow freely without constructing a dam on it. Keep smiling :)

Five Lessons learned in 2016.

Today I am going to share what I have learned from life in 2016. So let's start it.

1. Spending  time with your elders is very important.

We all are busy in our work and in this schedule we often forget  to spend time with our parents and grandparents.
They actually need us because they are growing old. They need our love at that stage.We should spend as much time with them as we can .So this is what I learned.

2. Travel whenever you have time and if you don't have time then create it.

This year I have learned how important is to travel and see new places in this one life.
Travelling not only rejuvenate your soul but it gives you chance to recreate a new you. Its quintessential for your mind and body, especially when your work is mandane and dull.

3. Another important thing which I learned is If you are always available to people's disposal they will take you for granted.

Being good to others is nice thing but it doesn't mean that others take you for granted so always remember that don't give them too much importance. Let them deal with your absence. It is necessary sometimes only then they can realise your importance.

4. One more important thing which I learned is "Expect the unexpected and always be on your toes when it comes to IT industry".

This year I have seen something which I haven't seen in my career of 5 years. I saw people being fired from the jobs in my firm and I was quite shocked . But I learned from this thing is life is unpredictable so don't waste money and use it effectively .

5. I have learned that if you can't give 100% effort to particular thing don't expect miracles to happen to you.

Basically I just want to say sometimes we want something so desperately but we don't want to put that much effort to it .That kind of attitude will not help us reach anywhere near to our goal . Hence we have to do extra efforts to make things done.



So this is what I learned from 2016 and I am hoping best things in 2017.

How Facebook is making our lives hell ?

Before you assume anything , I would like to say that I don't have any rivalry with Mark Zuckerburg , I think he is great Inspiration for the youth all around the world but having said that I won't deny the fact that I don't like Facebook anymore.

 Initially when Facebook was started it was fun to be on that because you can post on walls ,tag friends, play Farmville but gradually people started sharing everything on Facebook from their birthday celebration to their grossary shopping,  from their makeup to breakup, from proposal to prewedding ,wedding, post wedding, prehoneymoon, posthoneymoon etc etc etc.  The worst part of all that is you can't unfriend them for their stupidity because that will be rude. I am girl but I admit that girls are the ones who are actually making this worse. I mean with the trend of pouty selfies it has gone worse. I think when you smile you look most beautiful then why there is need to make duckface.

  

Apart from that one thing I hate about this Facebook is the trend of liking the photos and commenting on it. I seriously hate it . I won't lie to you, intially when I used to do Facebook , I wanted likes on my every photo and post . I used to get sad when don't get enough likes.

Sort of depression started coming to your mind because of that and if you get large number of likes you feel you have achieved something . Later on I realised that was not correct to validate our identity based on likes of people who will judge me based on my pic and will give me importance based on my DP. It was so lame. We all are beautiful people ,we don't need validations from others to feel special. 

I know I am the best and I know the girl who got 200 likes is not that pretty in actual life it's just filter then why there is big fuss about likes. Basically for people likes are directly proportional to happiness . 

Yeah , another thing I hate about Facebook is we use it for stalking other people's life with whom we dont talk anymore . Basically what we do is we go to their profile, we hate the fact their life is so much better than us because they are portraying it that way then eventually we started hating ourselves because we are not doing as great as them. But that is the biggest mistake we do , basically we don't appreciate what we have achieved so far but we just think about how far others have reached. The feeling of "Apparently everyone is doing great except us " is very dangerous. I am not sure whether others feel the same way as I do but I am writing what I have observed and felt. I am sure you can relate to it.

One of the other most important factors for not liking Facebook is we had to add people we don't like because we don't want to be mean . Like you can't deny their request because you know them , so you have to add them. Then those people will ping you, comment on your status and pics and you have to bear that thing which in real life you would not have done . 

Obviously they're pretty much factors where Facebook helped us like in getting back in contact with our long gone friends. Then there are some informative pages on Facebook.  It's biggest platform for digital marketing . It's providing opportunity to  entrepreneurs for promoting their product .

 In this blog I just expressed my views how people are not using it effectively . If you find it relatable like it on Facebook , hahahaha . Just kidding :) .

Priyanka Chopra - My Pretty P.

Priyanka Chopra

She is really the first person I think of when someone talk about success. She needs no introduction she is current Bollywood actoress ,who is making her mark in Hollywood also. She has been a Pop Singer. She was Ms World and also Ms India.

There are reasons why I love her because she seems pretty real to me. I have seen her in a lot of interviews and in TV shows . I think she is very humble.

Also I observed she never hides her flaws and always talk about them. Like she talked about her experience of racism in america. 

She never tries to be someone else this what I love about her. She is an Independent Decision Maker. She is intelligent and smart with her words.

She doesn't appear lame and fake when she talks . She seems relatable. You feel like your frnd is talking.

In personal life ,She doesnot seem to be someone who just want to rush into relationships just for the sake of it. She is very private person when it comes to her family and relations. She rarely talk about it. We even don't hear her rumours or link up stories and you know what I hate when ppl create false stories abt her. I know she is a good girl. 

 Although Priyanka Chopra is big name in the world, I still think Bollywood has not  given her enough respect and love she deserves . I feel they sort of underestimate her potential. She has given so many hits like Fashion, Mujhse Shaadi Karoge, Barfi, BajiRao , Mary Kom, Dostana. She deserves accolades and a lot of awards. I think she should do movies with only good directors and only those can do justice with her Incredible acting skills. I would like to see her working with Vikas Behl(Queen),Nitesh Tiwari(Dangal),Vikram Motwani(Lootera), Zoya Akhtar(Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara), Ram Madhvani(NEERJA), Raju Hirani(3 Idiots), Shoojit Sarkar(Pink/Piku), Imitiaz Ali(jab we met) . I don't know these guys don't work with her.

I have immense respect for her . I would like meet her as well.

You know wat I don't like word "FAN" it seems to me a degrading word . So i would like to say I am her admirer.
I wish she keeps on doing what she does and keep making us proud 

Future Victory Speech !..

Standing alone on the edge of world , I look back and cry.

The tears of joy rushes down my cheek.
Giving me a sigh of relief.

River of emotions flows inside my heart
A Big ThankYou to lord is all I have got.

I had my days when I felt low and doubted my credibility.
But still avoided chasing others and chose my own individuality.

Now when the victory is actually here, I believe there is more to be done
As I feel lyk there is more to be learn.

Lastly a few words to wrap up I would like to say
Keep slaying this world with your work like a Cray.

ThankYou!!!